By chris / February 8, 2023
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By: Christopher Todd
Award-winning Orange County photographer specializing in people with 20+ years of experience
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By: Christopher Todd
Award-winning Orange County photographer specializing in people with 20+ years of experience
In this article, you will find dos and don'ts along with our best family photography tips to achieve a successful portrait session.
Family Photography Dos and Don'ts For A Successful Photo Session
There is a good reason why moms are willing to go the extra mile to get great family photos. It's one of the best ways to preserve childhood memories and capture special moments in time.
Is it worth getting the family together all dressed nicely, choosing the perfect location, for the perfect photo session, arriving on time, and telling your kids and husband it is going to be fun? YES! It is 100 % worth it.
I am a dad of 2 teenage boys and my wife and I know the challenges of getting our boys to smile and cooperate for photos. But I am also a family photographer and I know it is possible to achieve a successful family photo shoot, get great photos, and have fun.
It might seem like a daunting task to plan family portraits. I get it. That is why I want to share with you my 10 essential dos and don'ts for family photography so you can have a successful photo session. I hope you find these tips that I have accumulated over the many years of photographing families helpful.
Whether you have toddlers who are on the move or cranky teenagers like mine, I will help you learn how to prepare for your family photoshoot. Family photos are a beautiful keepsake that can be treasured for years to come. Learn about Christopher Todd Studios' family portrait photography.
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1. Plan in advance
One of the first things you should do when preparing for a family photo session is to plan ahead. Consider what you need the photos for, whether it's holiday cards, prints for your home, or gifts for loved ones. This will help guide your decisions on location, outfits, and overall style.
Plan the location, outfits, and timing of the photoshoot to ensure everyone is prepared and in a good mood. Don't wait until the last minute: Avoid waiting until the last minute to schedule your photoshoot, as it can lead to stress and rushing.
Pro tip: Don't wait to schedule your session for the right moment. Waiting for the right time, getting braces off, waiting to lose 10 pounds, waiting for a tooth to fall out, whatever it might be, before you know it 6 months will have passed by.
The one thing you can't get back is time. Kids will change in the blink of an eye. So don't wait, get those family portraits taken. When you look back on those photos you will see how precious those moments were and how you did a great job capturing them.
2. Choose a suitable location
The location of your family photo session can greatly impact the overall feel and look of the photos. Consider whether you want a casual or formal look, as well as what season you prefer. Outdoor locations can provide beautiful natural lighting and backdrops, while indoor locations can offer a more intimate and controlled setting. Choose a location that reflects your family's personality and style. Think about your style and what type of portrait will look nice hanging in your home.
Once you have decided on a location your next step will be to start planning outfits. A great place to start is to think about the natural environment you will be photographing in. What colors will you be surrounded by? This will help pick a color scheme which we go into detail about here.
3. Plan outfits ahead
While you don't have to match exactly, in fact, please don't do this, however, it is important to coordinate outfits. This will create a cohesive and polished look in your family photos.
Choose outfits based on a color palette Stick to a color palette or theme that complements each other without being too matchy-match. For example, you could choose a neutral color scheme with pops of color or stick to complementary colors. Wear outfits that complement each other rather than matching outfits. You don't want to detract from the individual personalities in the photos and look too staged.Don't wear busy patterns or logos that may distract from the focus of the photo, which is your family.
This is a great opportunity to offer family members choices and get them involved in what they will wear. When kids and adults come to the session feeling comfortable and confident in their outfit choices they will be happy and this will reflect in the photos. Especially teenagers, don't have them wear something they hate.
Compromise on outfits to ensure everyone is happy. But be sure to follow certain tips and guidelines when choosing an outfit. For example, don't have your teen show up in athletic shoes.
I can tell you from over 20 years of photographing families in California that what families wear plays a huge role in the outcome of their portraits.Take a peek at this comprehensive guide on Choosing and Coordinating Colors for Family Photos.
4.Don't stress about imperfections
Firstly, keep in mind that no family is perfect, and that's okay! The goal of family photos is to capture the love and connection shared between family members, not to create a perfect image. Rather create an image that is meaningful and captures the essence of your unique family.
Remember that the goal is to document genuine moments and create lasting memories, so embrace imperfections and enjoy the process.
When it comes to family photos, many of us strive for perfection. We want everyone to look their best, with perfect smiles and flawless outfits.
However, it's important to remember that imperfections are what make our families unique and beautiful. So, instead of stressing about them, embrace the charm and character they bring to your photographs.
5. Make sure everyone is well rested
When it comes to capturing beautiful family photos, ensuring that everyone is well-rested is crucial.
This tip becomes even more important when younger kids and teenagers are involved. Lack of sleep can often lead to crankiness or lack of cooperation, making it challenging to capture those genuine smiles and joyful moments.
Avoid over-scheduling activities on the day of your photo shoot. Keep the day open and the photos your main priority for the day. I like to block schedule my calendar this helps with making sure there is plenty of time on the schedule.
From years of experience I know when families come to their session from another event or activity such as a soccer game, birthday party, or sleepover, the kids are not relaxed, parents or more stressed out, and the overall vibe is more tense.
Rather, than scheduling activities before or after your session keep the schedule light. Maybe have a relaxing meal at home beforehand or some downtime before the session.
6. Don't come hungry to the photoshoot
Hangry kids and spouses are never ideal for a photo shoot. Keep that blood sugar well regulated so it doesn't dip to low causing what we all know to be a hangry episode. This goes for moms as well.
It is ok to bring snacks for kids under 5 but avoid giving them till the session is over. I get it though, sometimes it's unavoidable for toddlers who we all know have a mind of their own. Keep the snacks limited and mess-free. Try to keep snacks hidden and controlled. Keep food in small quantities or hand it out to kids.
Easy snacks to bring:
- Fruit snacks
- Goldfish
- Apple slices
- Beef jerky
- Dried fruit
Avoid messy snacks:
- Hard candy or lollypops. These take too long for kids to eat interfering with taking photos.
- Strawberries, blueberries, or other juicy fruits. Could stain the outfit and make a mess.
- Gum
Bring a spare water bottle and keep it on hand. But don't let the kids over-drink. Since photo sessions are typically around 45 minutes in length, family members should be able to go without a potty break.
I bring up water because my son is always thirsty when I need him to cooperate. I bring a water bottle for those moments when he wants to find a drinking fountain. Maybe it's a stall tactic, whatever it may be I'm ready and prepared.
7. Arrive early to your session
Be sure to arrive early, especially if your child needs to acclimate to their surroundings. You be the judge on this one. If a playground is too tempting and results in tantrums stay clear of that area. Offer some time to play after the shoot is over.
Know where you are going and how easy or difficult parking will be. Nothing says a family outing like mom and dad arguing over where to park, or better yet can't find a parking space and now you are running late.
If teens are involved be sure to give them plenty of time to get ready. They tend to move slowly and on their own time. Let them know ahead when they need to be dressed and ready to go. Unfortunately, they might need a few reminders.
8. Plan a surprise treat for after the photo session
Let the family know you have something special in mind after the photos are taken. This can be as simple as getting an ice cream, bringing the kid's favorite candy, or grabbing a hamburger at In N Out.
Maybe it's just some extra time set aside to go to the playground. Base it on your family and what works for them.
If you decide to bring a treat be sure to give it to them after the session is over.
Letting them know you have planned a surprise treat for after the photos is a great way to extend the family time in a fun way. This helps make taking photos fun and memorable.
9. Don't worry about kids cooperating
Anticipating whether your children will cooperate with the photos can be one of the biggest stressors for parents.
Most likely they won't fully cooperate, but a good photographer will be patient and get what they need regardless.
I've seen it all. Kids can be unpredictable so if you come to the photo shoot telling yourself to expect the unexpected you will find it easier to deal with a meltdown or whatever other surprise your child throws at you.
A good photographer with plenty of experience will be able to get the perfect shot, even if it takes a bit longer than expected.
I always come to my photo sessions with a relaxed and calm vibe and I bring lots of patience. It's my job to get your kids to cooperate. I do this through years of experience. Take a look at these funny family portraits.
10. Be open to suggestions
This means you should trust your photographer. Hopefully, you hired the right photographer for your family. I encourage you to be a full participant in the photo session and let the photographer lead and guide you and your family.
Have confidence in them. Allow them to lead the session. Expect your photographer to try different techniques during your photo shoot.
When small children are involved I like to Get down to their level: Take photos from different angles and perspectives, including getting down to the children's level to capture their point of view.
In addition, I like to try a variety of poses, including group hugs, holding hands, and playing games to get natural, candid shots. It might feel awkward but these prompts help create great photos with natural laughs and expressions. Here are 5 prompts for "candid" poses that will look nice.
Pro tip: Forcing smiles can result in unnatural and awkward-looking photos. Instead, we will encourage your family members to genuinely smile by engaging in activities or conversations that bring out their natural happiness. A genuine smile will always look better than a forced one.
Bonus tips for families with young children
As a parent, I know that every stage comes with its own obstacles based on age. Here are my bonus tips for planning family portraits with toddlers and young children.
- Bring a backup outfit, just in case there is an oh sh*t moment.
- Don't let kids nap in the car unless they can have a full nap. This will help avoid a cranky child. If a nap is unavoidable, be sure to give them 15-20 minutes to be awake at the location before the photo session begins.
- Let them know you have a special day planned, and that the family will be dressing nice, and meeting a photographer/friend. Be sure not to overwhelm them with too much information. Keep it simple.
Bonus tips for families with teens
- Give plenty of reminders leading up to the photo day. Teens like to forget when it comes to family obligations.
- Let them know your expectations, but don't put pressure on them. Keep it fun and easygoing.
- Be sure they like their outfit and that they have tried it on a few times a couple of days before.
- Inform them of the small details, place, how long it will take when you will be leaving the house, and if there is a small activity or treat after.
- Give them a small task to do during the shoot. This will help get them engaged. I like to ask teens to take behind-the-scenes videos with their phones.
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FAQ
Some of our most frequently asked questions from our families?
What to wear in family photos to look thinner?Expand
When it comes to family photos, the most important thing is to wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. However, there are a few tips that can help you create a more flattering look and accentuate your best features:
- Dark, Solid Colors: Dark, solid colors like black, navy blue, and dark green can help create a slimming effect.
- Vertical Stripes: Vertical stripes can help elongate your silhouette and make you appear taller and thinner.
- Fitted Clothing: Wearing fitted clothing can help create a streamlined look and downplay any areas that you might want to conceal.
- Avoid Baggy Clothing: Avoid wearing baggy clothing, as it can make you look larger and add bulk to your silhouette.
- Choose the Right Fabric: Choose fabrics that drape nicely and don't cling to your body, such as cotton, silk, or rayon.
- Accessorize: Wearing a statement necklace, earrings, or scarf can draw attention to your face and away from your body.
- Comfortable Footwear: Wearing comfortable, supportive shoes with a low heel can help elongate your legs and create a flattering look.
Remember, the most important thing is to wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. When you feel good, it shows in the photos and can help you create a more flattering look.
How long does it take to photograph a family?Expand
Most family sessions last an hour. Although, they can be much shorter than that. One past session only lasted 5 min when the child fell into a lake at the park. After dad jumped in to retrieve his youngster, I wasn't sure if I should keep shooting. Years later the father told me the lake images are some of their favorite.
What are some family photography tips for beginners?Expand
Here are some tips for creating great family portraits for beginners:
- Always plan ahead: Decide on the location and poses in advance. This will ensure a smooth and efficient photo shoot.
- Pay attention to lighting: Good lighting can make a huge difference in the final result. Use natural light or add artificial light sources as necessary.
- Interact with your subjects: Engage with your subjects, make them feel comfortable, and help them to relax to get natural-looking photos. Be their facial coach and posing guide.
- Use a good camera and lens: Invest in good-quality professional equipment to ensure the highest image quality.
- Consider the background: Make sure the background is clean and uncluttered and not distracting.
- Take a variety of shots: Take a mix of posed and candid shots, as well as close-ups and full-body shots, to create a well-rounded collection of images.
- Edit and post-process your photos: Proper editing and post-processing can enhance your photos and bring out the best in your subjects.
- Get everyone involved: Encourage your subjects to interact and have fun during the photo shoot to capture real, authentic moments.
- Be creative: Try new poses and perspectives to create unique and interesting photos.
- Have patience: Family photo shoots can be hectic, but try to remain calm and patient to get the best results.
What are the dos and don'ts of photographyExpand
Below you will find some things to be mindful of and to avoid for a successful portrait session:
- Don't neglect to plan ahead: Plan the location, clothing, and poses in advance to ensure a smooth and efficient shoot.
- Don't ignore lighting: Good lighting can make or break a photo, so pay attention to natural light and use artificial light sources if necessary.
- Don't forget to interact with your subjects: Engage with your subjects, make them feel comfortable, and help them to relax to get natural-looking photos.
- Don't use a low-quality camera or lens: Invest in good-quality equipment to ensure the highest image quality.
- Do pay attention to the background: Make sure the background is clean and uncluttered and does not distract from the subjects.
- Do take a variety of shots: Take a mix of posed and candid shots, as well as close-ups and full-body shots, to create a well-rounded collection of images.
- Don't ignore editing and post-processing: Proper editing and post-processing can enhance your photos and bring out the best in your subjects.
What is Family Photography?Expand
What is Family Photography? Family photography is one of the most popular types of photos taken.
Types of family photography include:
- Maternity session
- Newborn photography
- Family portraits
- Graduations photos
- Multi generations
- Candid family photos
What's best to wear for a family photo shootExpand
When planning what to wear for a family photo shoot, it's important to take note of a few things to avoid. Here are some common mistakes to avoid:
- Avoid overly bright or bold colors: Stick to neutral or muted colors, such as shades of blue, grey, or white, to keep the focus on the faces.
- Avoid matching outfits: While coordinating outfits can look great, matching outfits can look too uniform and uninspired.
- Avoid graphic tees or logos: Large logos or graphics on clothing can be distracting in photos.
- Avoid busy patterns: Busy patterns can detract from the faces and make it difficult to see the subjects.
- Avoid white clothing: While white can look crisp and clean, it can also be too bright and wash out in photos.
- Avoid revealing clothing: Keep clothing modest and appropriate for all ages.
- Avoid casual clothing: Dress up a little for the photo shoot, even if it's just wearing a collared shirt or a nice dress, this will add to elevating the final result.
Remember, the goal is to have everyone look their best and keep the focus on the faces and expressions. So choose outfits that complement the faces and make the subjects feel comfortable and confident.
What makes a family picture special?Expand
What makes a family picture special? Getting family photos taken is a special time to spend with your family. You can make your family photos special by:
- Coordinating and wearing nice complimentary outfits.
- Choosing a meaningful location for your family.
- Taking photos at a milestone or special celebration.
- Hiring a photographer.
What is the most flattering outfit for pictures?Expand
The most flattering outfit for pictures will vary depending on personal style and body type, but there are some general guidelines that can help. Here are some tips to keep in mind:
- Stick to solid colors: Neutral colors such as black, navy, grey, or white are classic and timeless. Loud and bold colors can be distracting in photos.
- Choose clothing that fits well: Clothing that is too loose or too tight can be unflattering. Make sure everyone is wearing clothes that fit properly.
- Avoid patterns and prints: Busy patterns can be distracting and take away from the faces.
- Dress up a little: Even if it's just wearing a collared shirt or a nice dress, this will influence the final outcome of the photos.
- Wear layers: Layered clothing can add texture and interest to the photos.
- Avoid shorts or short skirts: Shorts and short skirts can be unflattering and cut the legs off in photos.
- Consider the neckline: V-necks and scoop necks are more flattering than high necklines in family photos.
- Consider the hemline: Knee-length or just above the knee is the most flattering hemline for most people in photos.
What family photography tips for clients do you recommend?Expand
Here are some tips specifically for moms during a family photo shoot:
- Come prepared: Make sure you have all the necessary items for the shoot, such as extra clothing, snacks, and toys for the kids.
- Relax: Try to relax and enjoy the experience, as this will help create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere for the rest of the family.
- Communicate with the photographer: Clearly communicate your vision and expectations during the planning meeting for the photo shoot to ensure that the final result meets your expectations.
- Get everyone on board: Encourage everyone in the family to get involved and participate in the photo shoot, and make sure everyone feels comfortable and at ease.
- Have patience: Family photo shoots can be hectic, but try to remain calm and patient, even when things don't go as planned.
- Get involved in the posing: Don't be afraid to get involved in the posing and suggest poses that you think will look good.
- Be open to suggestions: Be open to the photographer's suggestions and ideas for poses, as they may have professional experience and insights that can help improve the final result.
- Take breaks: If the kids get fussy or restless, take a break and let them run around or play for a bit.
- Enjoy the moment: Remember to enjoy the experience and create memories with your family, as the photo shoot is not just about getting good pictures, but about spending quality time together.
What should you not do in portrait photography?Expand
Here are some common mistakes to avoid in portrait photography:
- Poor lighting: Poor lighting can result in unflattering shadows and highlights that take away from the subject's appearance.
- Ignoring body language: Pay attention to the subject's body language, as it can convey emotions and impact the overall mood of the photo.
- Shooting from the wrong angle: Shooting from the wrong angle, such as shooting from above or below, can distort the subject's features and create an unflattering look.
- Not considering the background: The background should complement the subject and not distract from them. Be mindful of the background and make sure it's clean and uncluttered.
- Using the wrong lens: The lens you choose can impact the final look of the photo. Make sure you choose the right lens for the type of portrait you're taking.
- Not paying attention to the details: Pay attention to the details, including the subject's hair, makeup, and clothing, to ensure they look their best in the photo.
- Not engaging with the subject: Engage with the subject, whether through conversation or directing their poses, to create a relaxed and natural atmosphere.
- Using the wrong exposure settings: Make sure to choose the right exposure settings for the lighting conditions and the mood you want to convey in the photo.
- Not editing the photos: Post-processing can enhance the quality of the photos and bring out the best in the subject. Don't neglect the editing process.
What planning questions am I missing?Expand
Ask yourself these planning questions
- What do I need the photos for? (holiday cards, print over my fireplace, gifts)
- Are my family photos outdated, Is it time for updating?
- Is there a new member of my family that needs to be photographed?
- Am I looking for a casual or formal look?
- What season do I prefer?
Here are some tips for family portrait photography in regard to the photo location. The location you choose for a family portrait shoot can have a big impact on the final result. Here are some popular options to consider:
- Outdoor locations: Parks, beaches, gardens, or other natural settings can provide a beautiful backdrop for family portraits.
- Indoor studios: Professional photography studios offer a controlled environment and professional lighting equipment.
- Home: Taking family portraits in the comfort of your own home can be a great option for capturing lifestyle photos of candid and relaxed moments.
- Local landmarks: Consider a location that holds special meaning for the family, such as a local park or landmark, to add personal significance to the photos.
- Urban settings: Cityscapes and urban locations can provide unique and interesting backdrops for family portraits.
When choosing a location, consider the lighting, background, and overall atmosphere. Make sure the location complements the family's style and personality, and that it is easily accessible and safe.
See our favorite top 10 outdoor family portrait locations in Orange County.
What are the best colors for family photo shoots?Expand
What are the best colors for family photo shoots
- Neutral earth tones
- a complimentary color palette
- Off whites
- Light grey
How long should a family photo shoot lastExpand
How long should a family photo shoot last?
The length of your photo shoot will depend on the number of family members participating, and the age of the kids, parents, and grandparents.
The experience of the photographer can also dictate how long the photo session will last.
An experienced photographer can photograph an average size family between 30-60 minutes.
Have more questions? Get in touch with us to start planning your family portrait today.
Meet Your Family Photographer
Call Me Chris
I won't bore you with too many details, but I will say that I consider myself to be the luckiest guy in the world and I'm so grateful to have had the opportunity to merge my passion and career.
A couple of quick things about me personally. I was born and raised in Orange County. I currently live with my family near Huntington Beach where I love to surf or be in the ocean with my boys.
My passions include art, traveling, and of course photography.
ABOUT CHRISTOPHER
Meet Your Family Photographer
Call Me Chris
I won't bore you with too many details, but I will say that I consider myself to be the luckiest guy in the world and I'm so grateful to have had the opportunity to merge my passion and career.
A couple of quick things about me personally. I was born and raised in Orange County. I currently live with my family near Huntington Beach where I love to surf or be in the ocean with my boys.
My passions include art, traveling, and of course photography.
ABOUT CHRISTOPHER
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